Is it me or is it him?

sumineeyum asked:


I am a 29 year old female. I have been married for 4-1/2 years and with my husband for 7 years now. We have one 2 year old child together. The problem is we really don’t have sex much at all for probably the last 4 years maybe a bit longer. About 3 years ago we had sex maybe 2 times a month. Then when I was pregnant the sex stopped all together because he thought he would hurt the baby. Now it has been about 6 months since ANY sexual contact. I try to initiate it all the time but he always has an excuse to why he doesn’t feel like it. When we first got together we had sex every single day… most of the time a few times a day as I am a very sexual person and enjoy it. He has admitted part of the problem is my weight… Im chubby and have a tummy but Im not obese. This makes me feel like a disgusting person when I know Im not… I shower daily have great personal Hygiene and do my makeup and hair daily. Im at a loss of what I should do. Any suggestions?

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