a question for white females?
anz q asked:
Is dancing with asian dudes viewed as something shameful? Last night I went to a club with my homeboi for the first time in my life. I am usually not the kind of person that goes up to girls and ask them to dance with me, but I had a few attempts. All but one turned me down. I don’t think I look bad. In fact, I think I looked better than most dudes there, and a female friend of mine, who is white, once told me I look good when I wear a polo shirt, wear contacts, and spike up my hair. I’m 6’, weigh 175-180, and I’m pretty muscular (not to brag, but that’s what ppl say, and I have about 8% body fat and a well-defined abs). The girls would dance with fat white, black, and Hispanic dudes but not with me. Ha. It’s their loss. I am not bitter or anything, but I just don’t understand. at the end this one pretty white chick approached me. She popped my collar, kept touching my arms, telling me to flex them, and lightly punched my abs. we had some good time, grinding and caressing each other.
I found it funny that she asked me, “are you really asian?”
Is dancing with asian dudes viewed as something shameful? Last night I went to a club with my homeboi for the first time in my life. I am usually not the kind of person that goes up to girls and ask them to dance with me, but I had a few attempts. All but one turned me down. I don’t think I look bad. In fact, I think I looked better than most dudes there, and a female friend of mine, who is white, once told me I look good when I wear a polo shirt, wear contacts, and spike up my hair. I’m 6’, weigh 175-180, and I’m pretty muscular (not to brag, but that’s what ppl say, and I have about 8% body fat and a well-defined abs). The girls would dance with fat white, black, and Hispanic dudes but not with me. Ha. It’s their loss. I am not bitter or anything, but I just don’t understand. at the end this one pretty white chick approached me. She popped my collar, kept touching my arms, telling me to flex them, and lightly punched my abs. we had some good time, grinding and caressing each other.
I found it funny that she asked me, “are you really asian?”
I would say like 98% of females there were like white girls, so don’t say like, “stick with your own kind.” And I ain’t bitter.
fellas i am not being racist. The club just happened to be where “colored” ppl are extremely hard to find. My friend just dragged me to the place.
when i bumped n grinded with them, they tried to get my hands off their waists.
i’m korean
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March 5th, 2010 at 6:21 am
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stop being a racist.
March 5th, 2010 at 2:24 pm
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Speaking for the white female population, there is nothing shameful about it, and shame on anyone who holds any personal prejudices.
March 8th, 2010 at 7:17 am
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March 9th, 2010 at 7:03 am
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I don’t think it’s shameful to dance with an asian guy. Maybe they turned you down because you were a gentleman and actually asked them to dance instead of just bumping and grinding them on the dance floor. It seems like the club scene is all about disrespecting everyone. Who knows. Chicks are weird!
March 11th, 2010 at 7:48 pm
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specifically, what type of asian are you? chinese, middle eastern, filipino..?
March 12th, 2010 at 11:55 pm
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I’m a white girl, and I believe in the equality of white and blacks. but I just think that people tend to be with the ones that seem to be like them, and whites are much like this,(like what all majorities feel toward minorities) and often they think that white is much more beautiful than black,so as they try to dance with ones who look best, they avoid black ones, even if u are very handsome and good looking. I think there are some girls that do not think that dancing with a black differs from being with a white, and I have seen many, even where most of the guys in the party are white. so its better to accept that this thing happens sometimes, and dont think of this unfairity much, for u cant live on bothering about these common happenings that repeatedly occur in minorities’ life :-